Ladies, if you chose to date a man who live’s with his mother, please do not feel obligated to justify it with anyone.
If your man is sitting on his mother’s couch playing video games all day, letting his spiritual food supply (the bible) collect dust, and spending money that is not his on the lusts of the world (it is not his money if he’s not working, and if he is squandering from the only money he has saved that may be even worse). Do not be surprised if the fruit he bares for you is debt, lack, low self-esteem, and selfishness. He may treat his mother kindly, which is great, but he came out of her and he’s supposed to cleave to you.
If your man is sitting on his mother’s couch playing video games for fun, working hard at his job, saving his money, renewing his mind with the word, educating his mind to sharpen his natural skills, and helps his mother take good care of her home. Don’t be surprised if the fruit he bares for you is lasting moments of joy, financial security, wise decision-making, prosperity, and an excellent listener.
God’s perfection is attainable through His word, lets practice it everyday. While nobody is perfect, we all bear fruit for every seed that we sow.
If you are dealing with any one of the two scenario’s illustrated above, continue to trust in God’s word by seeking confirmation through it. The following scriptures may help.
- Romans 12:1-2
- 1 Timothy 5:8
- Proverbs 13: 4, 11; 16:22
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